Hug & Marry – Social Interactions & Relationships
Hug & Marry is a server-side mod/plugin that adds social interactions and relationship mechanics to Minecraft.
Available for both Fabric and PaperMC, it brings lightweight social features to multiplayer servers without requiring any client-side installation.
From simple hugs to marriage requests, customizable chat hearts, and optional private couple commands, Hug & Marry makes player interaction feel more personal and connected.
Features
/hug– Hug the nearest player/hug top– View the players with the most hugs/marry <player>– Send a marriage request/marry accept//marry deny– Accept or decline marriage requests- Marriage System – Players can marry, divorce, and manage their relationship
- Marriage Info – Shows partner, since-date, and PvP status
- PvP Toggle – Control PvP between married players
- Custom Chat Hearts – Married players can use individual heart symbols and colors
- PlaceholderAPI Support on Paper – Use
%hug_heart%in compatible chat, tab list, and scoreboard plugins - Persistent Data – Marriage data is saved across restarts
- Optional Hug Regeneration – Can be disabled in the config
- Couple Commands –
/kissand/cuddlecan be configured through admin commands - Admin Commands –
/marry list [page],/marry info <player>,/marry couplecommands <configured_pair|married_only|everyone> - Available for Fabric and PaperMC on Minecraft
1.21.xand26.1.x – 26.2
PlaceholderAPI
The Paper version automatically registers the following optional PlaceholderAPI placeholder:
%hug_heart%– Displays the player's custom heart symbol with its selected color
The plugin continues to work normally when PlaceholderAPI is not installed.
Perfect for
- Survival servers
- Roleplay communities
- Friend groups
- Servers focused on social interaction
Hug & Marry brings players closer together. Literally.
All Versions
+ Add Version- Updated to support 26.3
- Updated to support 26.3
- Added the Hug n Marry logo to all Fabric and Paper release builds.
- Added the Hug n Marry logo to all Fabric and Paper release builds.
- Added the Hug n Marry logo to all Fabric and Paper release builds.
- Added the Hug n Marry logo to all Fabric and Paper release builds.
- enabled Fabric for both singleplayer and dedicated servers.
- enabled Fabric for both singleplayer and dedicated servers.
- Added
%hug_heart%PlaceholderAPI support with custom heart symbols and colors. - Fixed heart color formatting so it no longer affects the rest of the chat message.
- Added
%hug_heart%
- Fixed heart color formatting so it no longer affects the rest of the chat message.
- Added Minecraft 26.1.x – 26.2 support
- Fixed Fabric API compatibility
- Updated command and server compatibility
- Added Minecraft 26.1.x – 26.2 support
- Updated command and server compatibility
- Fabric 1.2 Changelog**
- Fixed divorce crash with offline partners
- Player names are now stored by UUID and updated on join
- Old marriages remain compatible
- Offline partners now show their saved name when available
- No more Fabric
UserCacheruntime crash on 1.21.x
- Added configurable
/kissand/cuddlemodes:configured_pair,married_only,everyone - Added
/marry couplecommands [mode]for in-game switching